admin – Dear Hornets: https://dearhornets.com I am kicking your nest. Wed, 02 Jun 2021 23:43:24 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.4 https://i2.wp.com/dearhornets.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/cropped-wasp.jpeg?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1 admin – Dear Hornets: https://dearhornets.com 32 32 193041533 Dear BYU Students https://dearhornets.com/2021/06/02/dear-byu-students/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/06/02/dear-byu-students/#respond Wed, 02 Jun 2021 23:43:24 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=350 Continue reading Dear BYU Students]]> I have been on the phone with several organizations who are very interested in how you're being treated by BYU. For example, the US Department of Education, Office of Civil Rights, is interested in the experiences of students who are protected by the Civil Rights Act which outlaws discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex,… Continue reading Dear BYU Students

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Definitely the worst weekend of my life. https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/24/definitely-the-worst-weekend-of-my-life/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/24/definitely-the-worst-weekend-of-my-life/#respond Mon, 24 May 2021 18:15:00 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=343 Continue reading Definitely the worst weekend of my life.]]> I was reported and met with Kevin Utt. He didn't tell me who reported me but it was during my 6 month probation that they changed honor code reporting so that you cannot report anonymously. He still didn't tell me after that. Kevin was a nice guy and didn't seem judgmental or looking to punish… Continue reading Definitely the worst weekend of my life.

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She was the only person who listened to me after my assault without any judgement https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/she-was-the-only-person-who-listened-to-me-after-my-assault-without-any-judgement/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/she-was-the-only-person-who-listened-to-me-after-my-assault-without-any-judgement/#respond Fri, 21 May 2021 22:44:47 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=324 Continue reading She was the only person who listened to me after my assault without any judgement]]> I had an incredible experience with Lisa Leavitt, BYU’s survivor advocate. She was the only person who listened to me after my assault without any judgement and who validated the way I was feeling. At the same time, I met with the Title IX office at BYU and it was HORRIFIC. I asked for a… Continue reading She was the only person who listened to me after my assault without any judgement

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This was not about my safety. It was another deception. https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/this-was-not-about-my-safety-it-was-another-deception/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/this-was-not-about-my-safety-it-was-another-deception/#respond Fri, 21 May 2021 22:43:22 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=322 Continue reading This was not about my safety. It was another deception.]]> CW: Suicide, police, and a brief mention of abuse I came to BYU happy to be away from my abusive family. I lived in Heritage Halls, barely 19 and very naïve. I knew I was gay, but I was not out to anyone except my Heritage YSA Ward's Bishop and two close friends from home.… Continue reading This was not about my safety. It was another deception.

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before the HCO and Title IX were separated https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/before-the-hco-and-title-ix-were-separated/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/before-the-hco-and-title-ix-were-separated/#respond Fri, 21 May 2021 22:36:29 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=319 Continue reading before the HCO and Title IX were separated]]> Back before the HCO and Title IX were separated, I was a TA for the Computer Science dept. I had a student say sexually inappropriate things to me on 2 separate occasions and I brought it up during a TA meeting, which a few professors were in. They encouraged me to report it to Title… Continue reading before the HCO and Title IX were separated

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Dear BYU (part two) https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/19/dear-byu-part-two/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/19/dear-byu-part-two/#respond Wed, 19 May 2021 01:01:28 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=282 Continue reading Dear BYU (part two)]]> In part one, I mentioned that I had researched the websites of several other private religious or Utah-based universities to see if this BYU resource, the "Survivor Advocate," was replicated at other universities. Here is what I found on the BYU.edu Title IX page, where I discovered that the advocate link in the screenshot does… Continue reading Dear BYU (part two)

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Dear BYU (part one) https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/18/dear-byu-part-one/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/18/dear-byu-part-one/#respond Tue, 18 May 2021 22:39:15 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=237 Continue reading Dear BYU (part one)]]> I've been involved with several students who have been reported to the Honor Code Office. Often, I help with advice or support, but sometimes, I accompany students to the HCO. The last time I was there, a student reported an event that occurred without their consent and the HCO counselor stopped the meeting and said… Continue reading Dear BYU (part one)

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Gallery: DezNat Harassment https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/18/deznat-harassment/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/18/deznat-harassment/#respond Tue, 18 May 2021 21:25:54 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=233 Here is an ongoing collection of screenshots of the harassment that LGBTQ+ folks have faced from members of DezNat. It is not organized (yet).

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Resource: Definitions and Examples of Title IX Violations https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/16/resource-definitions-and-examples-of-title-ix-violations/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/16/resource-definitions-and-examples-of-title-ix-violations/#respond Sun, 16 May 2021 23:52:00 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=270 Continue reading Resource: Definitions and Examples of Title IX Violations]]> Gender Discrimination Gender Discrimination is defined as the following by Title IX: Gender discrimination is defined as the following by Title IX:Discrimination or harassment based upon one's gender (sex)Unfair treatment, attitudes, or behaviors towards an individual based upon their gender (sex)Gender identity discrimination as covered by Title VIISexism, sexist attitudes, and sex stereotypingUnproportionate athletic programs… Continue reading Resource: Definitions and Examples of Title IX Violations

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Link: BYU + Clery Act https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/16/link-byu-clery-act/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/16/link-byu-clery-act/#respond Sun, 16 May 2021 00:11:00 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=279 2020 Brigham Young University Annual Security and Fire Safety Reports

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