experience – Dear Hornets: https://dearhornets.com I am kicking your nest. Mon, 24 May 2021 18:20:14 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.4 https://i2.wp.com/dearhornets.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/cropped-wasp.jpeg?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1 experience – Dear Hornets: https://dearhornets.com 32 32 193041533 Definitely the worst weekend of my life. https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/24/definitely-the-worst-weekend-of-my-life/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/24/definitely-the-worst-weekend-of-my-life/#respond Mon, 24 May 2021 18:15:00 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=343 Continue reading Definitely the worst weekend of my life.]]> I was reported and met with Kevin Utt. He didn't tell me who reported me but it was during my 6 month probation that they changed honor code reporting so that you cannot report anonymously. He still didn't tell me after that. Kevin was a nice guy and didn't seem judgmental or looking to punish… Continue reading Definitely the worst weekend of my life.

]]> https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/24/definitely-the-worst-weekend-of-my-life/feed/ 0 343 She was the only person who listened to me after my assault without any judgement https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/she-was-the-only-person-who-listened-to-me-after-my-assault-without-any-judgement/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/she-was-the-only-person-who-listened-to-me-after-my-assault-without-any-judgement/#respond Fri, 21 May 2021 22:44:47 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=324 Continue reading She was the only person who listened to me after my assault without any judgement]]> I had an incredible experience with Lisa Leavitt, BYU’s survivor advocate. She was the only person who listened to me after my assault without any judgement and who validated the way I was feeling. At the same time, I met with the Title IX office at BYU and it was HORRIFIC. I asked for a… Continue reading She was the only person who listened to me after my assault without any judgement

]]> https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/she-was-the-only-person-who-listened-to-me-after-my-assault-without-any-judgement/feed/ 0 324 This was not about my safety. It was another deception. https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/this-was-not-about-my-safety-it-was-another-deception/ https://dearhornets.com/2021/05/21/this-was-not-about-my-safety-it-was-another-deception/#respond Fri, 21 May 2021 22:43:22 +0000 https://dearhornets.com/?p=322 Continue reading This was not about my safety. It was another deception.]]> CW: Suicide, police, and a brief mention of abuse I came to BYU happy to be away from my abusive family. I lived in Heritage Halls, barely 19 and very naïve. I knew I was gay, but I was not out to anyone except my Heritage YSA Ward's Bishop and two close friends from home.… Continue reading This was not about my safety. It was another deception.

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